Some people, like me, wouldn't be able to put it up for adoption. I for one couldn't do that especially if I'm still living with my parents because I know my parents would be disappointed in me and I wouldn't want that and I'm sure my dad would probably kick me out but that is if I am still living here. I wouldn't be able to keep the baby if I still lived with them so my only option would be abortion. And it's not like in nine months I'm gonna get a job and be able to move out. It takes time to save the money to move out.Revy the two hands wrote:If you ever do get pregnant, don't automatically decide whether its a keep or abort situation. Your circumstances nine months down the track could be so much better than what you're basing your decision on. Giving it up for adoption is the best decision if you know that you can't care for the baby, because who knows what that little person could grow up to be, right?
And some guys are just F@king idiots, I know a friend who was pressured into having sex and found out she's pregnant, and she told me that the first thing the guy said to her was "we can still have sex because it doesn't matter now since you're pregnant" . So ladies, make sure you know the guy you're seeing and that they have the same values as you do and that they respect yours, don't give in to what they want if you don't want it.
I know my man wouldn't be like that if I got pregnant, he would probably flip out. but I know he wouldn't leave me either. But i'm not worried about getting pregnant, I have condoms and the shot.