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Well, for a starter, I don't think you would be able to talk much sense into her since she is only thirteen and kids tend to be stubborn at this age. I believe she has a huge crush on him but to be so obsessed over him is not something normal. I think he is the one who should put a stop to this. Tell me, how does he feel about all this?

I'm not sure. He accepts her gifts and gives out his personal infomation like it was nothing important. He even agreed to attend her birthday party.

I still think he shouldn't have encouraged her. But don't you think it is something weird for a 13-year-old girl to give expensive gifts to her teacher? How does she react around you guys? Is she secluded or something? You should know what is it that she wants from him in the first place? Is it simply an admiration or is it a crush? Does she want to date him, for example? Are you close to her? If you are, maybe you need to approach her in a smart way so as not to get all offensive and angry. Doesn't the fact that he is married matter to her?

I used to be pretty close to her, but not so much anymore. She recently broke up with her boyfriend, who was a really nice guy but a senior. She's quite a timid little thing and, apparently, she doesn't care that he's married. I think it's more of a crush than admiration. She almost worhips him and it's strange to see her acting in such an outlandish and obvious manner because she's usually so shy.

Hmm.. Are you trying to stop her from doing this or what? It is really weird that she is doing this especially that she is shy, as you mentioned. Did she break up with her boyfriend because of the teacher or what? I know many girls who have crushes on their teachers but this is the first time that I see someone go to this extent. Do you think he is encouraging her? I do believe he has the key and he is the one who should put a stop to it if it is annoying him but maybe he that he likes it?

I would really like to stop her from doing what she's doing. It doesn't seem healthy for her to pursue married men. She said she broke up with her last boyfriend because he was "too immature" for her. I'm not sure he likes her the way she does him, but he does seem to be influencing her. This morning, I found one of my friends crying in the hallway. When I asked her why, she said that our friend (the freshman) no longer wanted to be friends with her because the teacher said she was a bad influence.

Well, this is really bad. I hate when this happens. So it seems that he has a big role in this whole thing. Well, I am not sure how you can stop her from pursuing him but it depends on how close you two are. If you are good friends, she may listen to you or she may think you are jealous or something. It really depends on how mature and open-minded she is. Tell her that she wouldn't like it if some girl was pursuing her own husband.

I hope I can convince her. She usually views me as an older sister type of friend. She used to come to me all the time with her problems. Even the boys she liked had to be approved by me for her to actually start dating them.

Then you have the advantage now. Try to talk to her as an older sister and hopefully, you can convince her. Maybe she will listen to you. Tell her that what she is doing is not healthy and that it is not appropriate to date a married man. I do believe in "What goes around, comes around." Do you believe in that?

Yes. I'll try talking to her tomorrow. Thank you very much, Shinogu. ^_^ To thank you, here's one of my favorite songs:
Un Monde Sans Danger

I hope I was of help to you, Yue-chan.

By the way, have you ever had a real boyfriend?

Kinda. I had a boyfriend for about two weeks. He was such a sweetie! He gave me flowers and candies, saying that nothing could match my beauty and sweetness. ^^; His personality was almost exactly like Daisuke's from DNAngel. Then I found out he was cheating on me . . .

How so? He was cheating on you with some other girl?

With one of my close friends. I broke up with him when I saw them making out in the hallway.

Oh, this is really bad. Did you two used to date and go out?

We went out to a few places, like the mall. Our dates usually consisted of going to the bookstore and reading manga outloud together.