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Re: re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 07, 2005 11:33am
by The Realist
Mai wrote:He hasn't called back yet..Does that mean he's like..mad??? ](*,)
If you told him the truth straight forward, my guess is yes. He might need some time alone or some cheering up. Like I said, my guess.

Re: re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 07, 2005 3:41pm
by Raoul Duke
I've done Year 1 psychology, which makes me equivalent to Dr. Phil.
Mai wrote:He hasn't called back yet..Does that mean he's like..mad??? ](*,)
It means he doesn't know if he's mad. But in the meantime he wants you to think he's mad. By the time he calls he will probably have decided he isnt mad anymore, and if he is he wont show it, but he'll be pleased when you assume a concerned tone and say "are you sure you're not mad?". Above all, he wants you to feel guilty, so guilty that you fellate him as consolation. jk (<< adding humour to screw with you)

Just to keep you on your toes!
He might call you, launch into a prerehearsed diatribe ending with "fk off, i never want to see you or your tainted pussy again!" but he'll come round eventually. "Come round"... poor word choice, lol.

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 07, 2005 3:50pm
by Mai
So, Dr.Phil..Does that mean I should call him or just wait for his call??

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 07, 2005 3:59pm
by Pink Supervisor|EL
dr. phil dr. phil...sry i had to do that

hmm who knows everyones diffrent...

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 08, 2005 8:59am
by Mai
Okay well he called at like one in the morning. I don't know why he called so late but like I apologized and everything. I think he is trying to avoid me! It's starting to p*ss me off now. All I did was try and make things easier between us. I mean like..it's not as if he told me before that he was waiting for somneone special..

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 08, 2005 12:57pm
by Persiaisis
now u need to make him tell u whats been bothering him and why he is taking it so hard

Re: re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 08, 2005 2:52pm
by Atomosk
Mai wrote:Okay well he called at like one in the morning. I don't know why he called so late but like I apologized and everything. I think he is trying to avoid me! It's starting to p*ss me off now. All I did was try and make things easier between us. I mean like..it's not as if he told me before that he was waiting for somneone special..
you have no right to be pissed off. you broke his trust and messed with his head. he has every right to be upset. let him mull it over; it's better than rushing him into making a decision he or you may later regret.

Re: re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 08, 2005 2:55pm
by Mai
Atomosk wrote:
Mai wrote:Okay well he called at like one in the morning. I don't know why he called so late but like I apologized and everything. I think he is trying to avoid me! It's starting to p*ss me off now. All I did was try and make things easier between us. I mean like..it's not as if he told me before that he was waiting for somneone special..
you have no right to be pissed off. you broke his trust and messed with his head. he has every right to be upset. let him mull it over; it's better than rushing him into making a decision he or you may later regret.
Well he's trying to avoid it!! All i'm trying to do is say that I was sorry I didn't tell him the truth but he won't listen to me. It's so aggrovating!! He blocked me on AIM and YIM, I know he's upset but he can't just shove me out of his life! After all we went through!!

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 08, 2005 3:41pm
by Persiaisis
u just need to give him time and see if he comes around

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 08, 2005 3:53pm
by Mai
Before he knew about all of this he wanted to date me again. Now he hates me...It doesn't make sense!

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 08, 2005 6:03pm
by The Realist
Well he is pissed off I take it. For someone who really trying to avoid you, then let him. Best not explain or say anything else. Just let it go Mai...he'll get over it. No one can stay mad forever. Let him sit back and rest. Its best!

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 08, 2005 6:52pm
by Marina
There are guys who are willing to have sex with you witout love. They don't take sex seriously as though it seems true. I think you should get over it and make a space for your own love, who is your girlfriend.
If you appreciate your girlfriend, then why are you going out with your ex? Does it mean that you still love him?

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 11:47am
by ..JUst mE...
i totally hope everything works out for you Mai

*huggles* :mrgreen:

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 1:10pm
by Pyro Psycho
First of all.....he has the right to be mad at you. You just have to take it. Obiously you broke his trust and betrayed his feelings. So dont get mad at him just because hes ignoring you. I mean it hurts to be broken like that. Sorry Mai Im just saying....

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 12, 2005 2:32pm
by Mai
It's aiight homie. 8)


I'm just going to put it this way. He doesn't want to be my friend and what ever. If he loved me so much before he found out then he would be able to understand my position. I'm going to stick with that because it's just easier in many angles.

re: Jeeez! Help!!

Posted: Nov 13, 2005 12:05pm
by ..JUst mE...
you go girl!!!! =D> =D> =D> =D> =D> =D> :mrgreen: \:D/ \:D/ \:D/ :color: :color: :color: :color: :mrgreen: