marriage w/ conditions

[Raoul Duke]

I've been going through the whole marriage thing too. I think it's because of me that you are Anna. I made the marriage thread in OTD, and I did a whole heap of research about the origins of marriage today, just so I could win a debate, but it turns out that the guy I was going to be debating with (GRAVYTRAIN) just frickin gave up! Oh well.

My theory is that most men want their partner to be a virgin because they don't want the partner comparing them to someone previous. It's a way of hiding their own incompetance.

Personally I don't believe in marriage myself, but I don't care either way if my partner is a virgin or not.

[galfwend]

u maybe right... depending on the country and their laws thougt

[Kuroi Shinzou]

Agg!! I hate how people always think that it's alright for guys to have sex all the time, but it's such a big deal for girls to lose their virginity.

i dont get it, how is a girls loss of virginity more important than a guys? because they lose a layer of skin, that makes it more important than a guys first time?


because if its not that, then your saying its something emotional, saying that girls are more emotionaslly inclined about this loss of inocence, which is completlyly sexist


i "like" how people assume guys dont care about theyre first, just because they dont show it right out

[galfwend]

good reply einstein

[Raoul Duke]

because if its not that, then your saying its something emotional, saying that girls are more emotionaslly inclined about this loss of inocence, which is completlyly sexist

gee, you didn't really make sense, but I think you were trying to say something silly then.

[Kuroi Shinzou]

how does that not make sense?

to say a womans loss of viginity (or innocence) is more meaningful than a guys on an emotional level, is quite sexist (examples: guys are more inclined to anger than girls, or woman feel love stronger than men. are common, but sexist views)

[Hey]

i dont get it, how is a girls loss of virginity more important than a guys? because they lose a layer of skin, that makes it more important than a guys first time?

My point exactly. I understand how guys would rather be someone who...I don't know...who hasn't gotten around, lol, because they would like to think that she's like...untouched...and all theirs or something. And that's total bs. What about the guy himself? I'm sorry, but if a guy brings up virginity infront of me and starts to bash a girl for being a..ahem...hoe, I'd freak out, that is if he was a man-hoe himself, if not, then I wouldn't care.

And plus, like you said. I really can't see how virginity is so important. I have parents who wouldn't even imagine their daughters marrying someone not being virgins. lol, and I can't STAND IT! And it definetly shouldn't matter to the guy, heck, if a guy brings it up and tries to diss you girls, fire back and say, "what about you? would you say you're a man-hoe?".

I've been going through the whole marriage thing too. I think it's because of me that you are Anna.

And Locke, you so totally did. Well, I was always intrested in that matter since I've a dad who believes the exact opposite of what I believe (mother too, but not as bad lol) so yeah. Same with religion really, and the whole God issue.

My theory is that most men want their partner to be a virgin because they don't want the partner comparing them to someone previous. It's a way of hiding their own incompetance.

lol! Wow, brave enough to come out and say it! I respect that deeply ma man.

[Hey]

Woah...you two are quick.

[Raoul Duke]

how does that not make sense?

It doesn't make sense because you lack the ability to type simple sentences in an coherent manner, and what it is you are trying to say is the type of thinking induced by the brainwashing of Christian fundamentalists.
Saying innocence is tantamount to virginity is very silly indeed.

[Raoul Duke]

how does that not make sense?

It doesn't make sense because you lack the ability to type simple sentences in a coherent manner, and what it is you are trying to say is the type of thinking induced by the brainwashing of Christian fundamentalists.
Saying innocence is tantamount to virginity is very silly indeed.

[Mai]

"woman-activist sort of person, "

Feminist?

[GravyTrain]

Yeah, I'm still trying to wrap my head around Nanaki's statement as well.

and I did a whole heap of research about the origins of marriage today, just so I could win a debate, but it turns out that the guy I was going to be debating with (GRAVYTRAIN) just frickin gave up! Oh well.

I didn't give up, I just have nothing new to say.

[Hey]

"woman-activist sort of person, "

Feminist?

Errr, yes. Thanks chica.

And I mean, how can I be when I love guys lol.

[Cold Revolver]

how does that not make sense?

It doesn't make sense because you lack the ability to type simple sentences in a coherent manner, and what it is you are trying to say is the type of thinking induced by the brainwashing of Christian fundamentalists.
Saying innocence is tantamount to virginity is very silly indeed.

Nice double post there Locke, it sure does get your point out in the open sure enough.

[Chaotic reminder]

do u mind if ur marrying a woman whose not anymore a virgin?? or she has already kidz or a man who married 12 times already like that.. u know what i mean

who gives a crap if someone is a virgin or not, im strickly non judgemently on those kinds of things

[GravyTrain]

do u mind if ur marrying a woman whose not anymore a virgin?? or she has already kidz or a man who married 12 times already like that.. u know what i mean

who gives a crap if someone is a virgin or not, im strickly non judgemently on those kinds of things

Yeah, and if you're not a virgin anymore and you're a girl, they now have corrective surgery for that.