marriage w/ conditions

[galfwend]

do u mind if ur marrying a woman whose not anymore a virgin?? or she has already kidz or a man who married 12 times already like that.. u know what i mean

[GravyTrain]

Not really, but you should be allowed to spend less on them. Like a used Xbox at Gamestop.

[galfwend]

AW

[Kuroi Shinzou]

dude...thats harsh, your compareing people to objects of entertainment.


anyway, i dont think theyres anything wrong with marrieing someone whos not a virgin, because i dont think anyone waits to have sex till theyre married anymore, well not in america anyway, and besides if your about to marry someone i think you dont care if they already have kids or have been married before, i mean you're already in love with them enough to marry them...and its not like you didn't already know they had kids or something, its not something they can spring on you, on your honeymoon

[galfwend]

OUCH...

[kukutaru_ookami]

yep no problem with it and GT don;t comapre people to objects tis not nice and that's my lecture for the dya..gods am I glad that's over. Yeah what are they going to do *right after the I do's* newly wed husband/wife:oh honey idd I forgot to metion I have 12 kids as for not a virgin so few people wait till marriage to have sex like BH said so I wouldn't worry about it...I am however a virgin bit I'm 14 so what do ya expect :p

[galfwend]

STILL YOUNG ME 2

[Hey]

Agg!! I hate how people always think that it's alright for guys to have sex all the time, but it's such a big deal for girls to lose their virginity.

I hate how people think it's all cool when a guy sleeps around with chicks and they call him a player and stuff, and praise the fact that he's a man-hoe. lol excuse my language.
And then when a girl has....excessive amount of sex, she's automatically labled as a slut/hoe/whore/etcetc, and is shunned from the society.

Fortunately, none of the girls I know have ever been in that situation before, but I know plenty of guys who are "players". And I mean, it's alright, do whatever you want, but don't judge the opposite sex when they do the same. Guys are specially quick at judging girls when it comes to that particular matter. I think you can do whatever you want as long as you're a responsible person. (wait....how did it get to this point? )



Anywho-haws. You know what? Guys who do mind you not being a virgin, aren't worth your while. They obviously don't have the intellect to understand the situation, or feel like their man-ego is being threatned. AND... if that's actually THAT important to them, then maybe someone should ask them and see whether they're virgins.


Woah...I feel like such a...woman-activist sort of person, lol.....and I'm so not. And no, I'm not saying that I sleep around, it just bothers me.


And about the kids thing, personally...I think thaaaaaaaat...I don't know. It depends. lol, if you're like, 20 and the guy you want to marry is like, 35 or something and has a 15 year old kid....mmmmmmmmmm.....I don't know.... lol. It'd be kind of weird.... I wouldn't marry him I guess, 'cause I would TOTALLY be like...his second kid. Hahahaha, but that's just me. I haven't reached the... mature-lady-person-woman stage yet. BUT on the other hand!!! Since I don't think I would be a very good mother, it might be a good idea to start out with a kid who's....not really a kid anymore. lol. That way he or she would already be screwed up, or... since I wouldn't be able to mother him or her, I wouldn't screw him or her up. hahahahaha, oh i don't know. I guess all I'm trying to say is, if you love someone you really shouldn't think about stuff like that, since they don't really matter, like there are countless negative and positive aspects to....oh i don't know, marrying someone with a kid, marrying a divorce(i), or a non-virgin. lol, I mean, love IS suppose to be that strong...right?



BUT, the thing is... I don't think I'd ever be in a situation like that lol since I don't really believe in marriage. Unless it is a marriage-for-money type of thing, lol kidding.




P.S. for some reason, I've been veeeery intrested in marriage issues lately lol. kinda weird... Anyway, aren't you guys all way too young to even think about marriage right now?

[Kuroi Shinzou]

i'm 19...

[Hey]

i'm 19...

I'd consider that being young, not "too-too" young, but "too" young for marriage.

[Cloud]

not a virgin(depends on this one)
Kids(also depends and how many)
More then 2 its over for sure

[galfwend]

ns speeach

[Hey]

not a virgin(depends on this one)
Kids(also depends and how many)
More then 2 its over for sure

So you're saying that if she wasn't a virgin you wouldn't marry her?

[GravyTrain]

not a virgin(depends on this one)
Kids(also depends and how many)
More then 2 its over for sure

So you're saying that if she wasn't a virgin you wouldn't marry her?

Something like that is probably going to depend foremost on how hot she is.

[kukutaru_ookami]

*sighs* alright..how to say this..hot is an obscrue verb because hot is based on a person's perception of beauty and who cres if they're "hot" or not so long as they're a good person

[galfwend]